Musings - Blogs
Why Do I Feel Anxious Before Anything Has Happened? Understanding Anticipatory Anxiety
When your mind keeps rehearsing what might go wrong, the future can begin to take over the present. Explore anticipatory anxiety and ways to make room for uncertainty.
Why Do I Feel Like a Kid Again Around My Family? Navigating Holiday Triggers
Feel like a kid again around family? Explore holiday triggers, familiar roles, and ways to set boundaries while staying connected to your adult self.
Who Do You Get to Be? Halloween, Identity, and Self-Expression
Halloween gives us permission to experiment. What might that reveal about the qualities we enjoy, the roles we carry, and the parts of ourselves we’d like to explore?
Why Do I Feel Guilty When I Rest? Understanding Perfectionism and Productivity
Feel guilty when you rest? Explore how perfectionism and productivity shape self-worth, and how therapy in Williamsburg, Brooklyn can help.
When You Can’t Stop Overthinking: Anxiety Therapy in Williamsburg, Brooklyn
Can’t stop overthinking? Explore anxiety therapy in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, and meet therapists who help with worry, relationships, and work stress.
“I Should Be Able to Handle This”
When being capable becomes central to your identity, asking for help can feel like failure. Anthony Windram, LMSW, explores self-reliance, uncertainty, and therapy for men navigating midlife.
Why Am I Still Burned Out After Time Off? Understanding Work Stress That Follows You Home
Still exhausted after a vacation or weekend? Learn why work stress can persist and how burnout therapy in Williamsburg, Brooklyn can help.
How to Find a Therapist Who Feels Like the Right Fit
Finding a therapist can feel overwhelming when every profile starts to sound alike. Learn what to look for beyond credentials, what to ask during a consultation, and how to find someone whose approach feels right for you.
Meet Christy Walshe, LMSW: Therapy for Deeper Connection, Self-Trust, and Meaningful Change
Christy Walshe, LMSW, offers emotionally attuned therapy for individuals and couples navigating relationship patterns, life transitions, anxiety, depression, boundaries, self-worth, and spiritual growth. Her work integrates relational therapy with embodied and contemplative practices.
Meet Carolyn Patterson, LMSW: Relational Therapy for Individuals and Couples
Carolyn Patterson, LMSW, offers relational, psychodynamic therapy for individuals and couples navigating recurring relationship patterns, family-of-origin wounds, anxiety, ADHD, life transitions, and consensual non-monogamy. She also provides psychedelic preparation and integration therapy.
Meet Anthony Windram, LMSW: Psychodynamic Therapy for Life’s Turning Points
Anthony Windram, LMSW, offers thoughtful, depth-oriented therapy for adults and couples navigating anxiety, relationship patterns, career change, burnout, identity questions, and major life transitions. He is now accepting new clients in Williamsburg and virtually throughout New York.
Welcoming Sabrina Rubenstein, LMSW, to Transcendent Self Therapy
We’re delighted to welcome Sabrina Rubenstein, LMSW, to Transcendent Self Therapy. Sabrina brings a warm, relational, and creative approach to adults navigating anxiety, ADHD, relationships, identity, grief, burnout, and life transitions.
How to Find an Aetna Therapist in Brooklyn: What to Know Before You Book
Finding a therapist who accepts your insurance is important—but coverage is only one part of the decision. Here’s how to understand your Aetna benefits and find a Brooklyn therapist who fits your needs.
Why Friendship Is Good for Your Mental Health
"There are friends who make us feel more like ourselves."
Maybe you've experienced it before.
You sit down for coffee with someone you've known for years. Nothing extraordinary happens. You talk about work, your family, the strange dream you had last night, the book you're reading, or the frustrating text message you can't stop thinking about.
A couple of hours later, you leave feeling lighter.
The problems in your life haven't disappeared.
Your to-do list hasn't gotten any shorter.
Nothing has objectively changed.
And yet somehow...you feel different.
Calmer.
More hopeful.
More yourself.
Many of us assume this feeling is simply "nice to have." We often prioritize our careers, romantic relationships, parenting responsibilities, or productivity while friendships quietly drift into the background. As adults, it's easy to believe friendships are optional luxuries—something we'll get to once life slows down.
But psychology tells us something very different.
Friendship isn't simply a pleasant addition to a meaningful life.
It is one of the foundations of one.
Meet Irene (Shen-Yun): Welcoming Our Creative Arts Therapist and Psychotherapist to Transcendent Self Therapy
Meet Irene Shen-Yun, a bilingual English and Mandarin therapist at Transcendent Self Therapy in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, now accepting new clients for in-person and virtual therapy.
Why Am I So Tired All the Time? When Exhaustion Is Actually Emotional
Feeling exhausted even after a full night's sleep? If your medical workup is normal, your fatigue may be emotional rather than physical. Learn how anxiety, burnout, perfectionism, trauma, and chronic stress affect the nervous system—and how therapy can help you regain your energy and sense of well-being.
Is Therapy Worth It? What Actually Changes—and How Do You Know It's Working?
Is therapy worth it? If you've ever wondered whether therapy actually works or how to know if it's making a difference, you're not alone. Learn what changes in therapy, why progress often looks different than expected, and how psychotherapy can help you build healthier relationships, greater self-awareness, and lasting emotional well-being.
Pride Is More Than Celebration: The Ongoing Journey Toward Authenticity
Pride is often associated with celebration, visibility, and community. Yet for many LGBTQ+ individuals, Pride also brings up complicated emotions—including anxiety, grief, identity exploration, family conflict, and the ongoing work of becoming more authentically yourself. At Transcendent Self Therapy, we provide LGBTQ+ affirming therapy in Brooklyn and throughout New York, helping individuals navigate these experiences with compassion and curiosity.
Why Do I Feel Like I Don't Fully Belong Anywhere?
If you've been struggling with loneliness, identity questions, life transitions, or a persistent feeling that you don't fully belong, therapy can help. Our therapists work with adults throughout New York who are seeking greater connection, self-understanding, and emotional well-being.
Schedule a consultation to learn more about working with Transcendent Self Therapy.