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Anthony Windram, LMSW Anthony Windram, LMSW

“I Should Be Able to Handle This”

When being capable becomes central to your identity, asking for help can feel like failure. Anthony Windram, LMSW, explores self-reliance, uncertainty, and therapy for men navigating midlife.

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Kateri Berasi Kateri Berasi

How to Find a Therapist Who Feels Like the Right Fit

Finding a therapist can feel overwhelming when every profile starts to sound alike. Learn what to look for beyond credentials, what to ask during a consultation, and how to find someone whose approach feels right for you.

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Kateri Berasi Kateri Berasi

Why Friendship Is Good for Your Mental Health

"There are friends who make us feel more like ourselves."

Maybe you've experienced it before.

You sit down for coffee with someone you've known for years. Nothing extraordinary happens. You talk about work, your family, the strange dream you had last night, the book you're reading, or the frustrating text message you can't stop thinking about.

A couple of hours later, you leave feeling lighter.

The problems in your life haven't disappeared.

Your to-do list hasn't gotten any shorter.

Nothing has objectively changed.

And yet somehow...you feel different.

Calmer.

More hopeful.

More yourself.

Many of us assume this feeling is simply "nice to have." We often prioritize our careers, romantic relationships, parenting responsibilities, or productivity while friendships quietly drift into the background. As adults, it's easy to believe friendships are optional luxuries—something we'll get to once life slows down.

But psychology tells us something very different.

Friendship isn't simply a pleasant addition to a meaningful life.

It is one of the foundations of one.

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Kateri Berasi Kateri Berasi

Why Am I So Tired All the Time? When Exhaustion Is Actually Emotional

Feeling exhausted even after a full night's sleep? If your medical workup is normal, your fatigue may be emotional rather than physical. Learn how anxiety, burnout, perfectionism, trauma, and chronic stress affect the nervous system—and how therapy can help you regain your energy and sense of well-being.

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Kateri Berasi Kateri Berasi

Is Therapy Worth It? What Actually Changes—and How Do You Know It's Working?

Is therapy worth it? If you've ever wondered whether therapy actually works or how to know if it's making a difference, you're not alone. Learn what changes in therapy, why progress often looks different than expected, and how psychotherapy can help you build healthier relationships, greater self-awareness, and lasting emotional well-being.

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Kateri Berasi Kateri Berasi

Pride Is More Than Celebration: The Ongoing Journey Toward Authenticity

Pride is often associated with celebration, visibility, and community. Yet for many LGBTQ+ individuals, Pride also brings up complicated emotions—including anxiety, grief, identity exploration, family conflict, and the ongoing work of becoming more authentically yourself. At Transcendent Self Therapy, we provide LGBTQ+ affirming therapy in Brooklyn and throughout New York, helping individuals navigate these experiences with compassion and curiosity.

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Kateri Berasi Kateri Berasi

Why Do I Feel Like I Don't Fully Belong Anywhere?

If you've been struggling with loneliness, identity questions, life transitions, or a persistent feeling that you don't fully belong, therapy can help. Our therapists work with adults throughout New York who are seeking greater connection, self-understanding, and emotional well-being.

Schedule a consultation to learn more about working with Transcendent Self Therapy.

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